Question about employers keeping your cancer diagnosis separate from your job
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Rebecca Nellis on Oct 13, 2009
Cancer and Careers Staff Comment:
Hi Rhonda,
I am the Director of Programs for Cancer and Careers and I wanted to suggest that you speak with someone at the Cancer Legal Resource Center, they are a nonprofit that provides pro-bono counseling on legal and insurance issues and they might have some advice about how to approach the conversation and what rights you have that you may not be aware of. We work very closely with them and their info is below! Also, I will alert our coaches to your question for additional thoughts on how to go about this.
Contact:
Toll Free #: (866) THE-CLRC or (866) 843-2572
Phone: (213) 736-1455
TDD: (213) 736-8310
Fax: (213) 736-1428
Email: CLRC@LLS.edu
http://www.cancerlegalresourcecenter.org/Best,
Rebecca -
Julie Jansen on Oct 14, 2009
Career Coach Comment:
Hi Rhonda,
I absolutely want to reiterate what Kathy and Rebecca have recommended that you do first which is seek legal advice before having a discussion (even informally) with your direct boss.
The practical advice that I have for you may sound obvious but is important to know. Once you have received legal advice, I recommend that you do the following:
- Write down your key talking points and practice them with someone who is objective and trustworthy.
- Remember to breath and pause often while you are talking.
- Maintain a confident demeanor, even if you are nervous by maintaining direct eye contact, trying to smile, and talking in short phrases or sentences.
- Do your best to understand your bosses' frame of mind regarding your situation. If she says something that you don't understand, try to paraphrase her so that she will explain it in a different way.
- Try not to leave the discussion before understanding what action steps are next on her part or yours.
- Avoid sounding defensive or upset.Please write again if you need more help. I am sending warm thoughts your way.
Take care,
Julie